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Hi, I'm Pamela

I'm an engineering leader, speaker, and program creator who helps women turn lived experience into aligned action using energy work, strategic coaching, and AI tools to build businesses and lives that don't require constant endurance.

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Where I Started...

I was born in Peru and immigrated to Canada 15 years ago. Like many immigrants, I rebuilt my life from scratch, learning new systems, adapting to new expectations, and finding my footing again.

I earned my degrees, grew my career, and spent over a decade leading high-performing teams, first as a project manager, then as a people leader.

What Changed...

From the outside, everything looked stable. But life doesn't always leave room for reflection.

I went through a divorce. I became a single mom to two children. Mornings were early, days were full, and the margin was thin. Responsibility accumulated quietly, and I adapted the way many capable women do by carrying more and asking for less.

The Moment That Changed Everything

There was one morning I'll never forget.

I was getting my daughters ready for school and couldn't find one of their backpacks. I snapped. I raised my voice. They looked at me, scared and confused, and in that instant, I knew it wasn't about the backpack.

It was about depletion.

I was running on empty physically, mentally, and emotionally. I had been functioning, but I wasn't okay. Standing there, I saw the cost of building a life that depended on constant endurance.

That moment stayed with me.

For a long time, I believed resilience meant pushing through. Holding it together. Keeping pace. Not slowing down.

But I learned the difference the hard way.

Endurance is white-knuckling your way through a storm.
Resilience is knowing when to pause, recalibrate, and choose a different route.

Endurance survives. Resilience recovers.

That distinction didn't just reshape how I defined success; it became the foundation of how I help other women build.

If You're Reading This and Thinking "That Sounds Like Me" , You're in the Right Place

Maybe you've been through your own version of the backpack moment.

Maybe you're carrying more than you signed up for, leading at work, holding your family together, building something meaningful, but barely keeping your head above water.

Maybe you know you're capable of more, but the path forward feels unclear, exhausting, or like it requires sacrificing the parts of yourself you're trying to protect.

Here's what I've learned: Experience alone isn't enough.

Many women carry deep wisdom from what they've lived through divorce, burnout, leadership pressure, caregiving, and starting over, but they lack the space, structure, or support to turn that experience into something that serves them.

That's where I come in.

How I Work Now

The shift wasn't about doing more. It was about doing differently.

Quote: Improvement doesn't always mean adding. Sometimes it means removing.

Today, I blend three powerful elements to help women build aligned businesses and lives:

Energy Alignment

We clear the blocks, release what's no longer serving you, and reconnect you to your natural flow so you stop operating from depletion.

Strategic Coaching

I help you take your lived experience and turn it into clarity, direction, and frameworks you can actually use, whether that's in your leadership, your business, or your life.

AI-Powered Tools

I show you how to leverage technology to automate the busy work, scale your impact, and free up the mental space you've been craving.

The result? You stop white-knuckling your way through life and start building something that feels sustainable, powerful, and true to who you are.

I'm in a state of constant growth myself always refining how I live and lead. Not to become someone else, but to amplify what already works and release what no longer serves.

Why I Create What I Create...

You don't need to keep proving yourself through exhaustion. You don't need another strategy that requires you to override your intuition.

Beyond the Work...

When I'm not working with clients...

You'll find me on the volleyball court (where I've learned that showing up matters more than perfection), experimenting with new hobbies (because I believe in staying curious)...

and spending time with my two daughters, who keep me honest, grounded, and remind me why building a sustainable life matters.

I practice what I teach, though I'm not perfect at it.

I'm still learning to slow down, still practicing listening to my body, and still choosing alignment over achievement, one decision at a time.

Ready to Build Differently?

If you're done with the grind and ready to create something that feels aligned, I'd love to support you.

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@ 2025 Pamela de la Flor

Start with clarity. Build with intention. Refine with support.

@ 2025 Pamela de la Flor